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Monday, April 25, 2011

THE HIDDEN BLACK SWAN

We are so attached to our image and mostly we think, “I am so correct and conscientious that I will always be remembered for my best qualities that I show to others.” 

But hear this: There is nobody who is all good or all bad. We are all mixed.
The saint has hidden ‘id’ impulses and the bad one has hidden goodness inside.

Our society fails to see this as it does not like ‘black’ but knows that we can not eradicate this from within. 

No one can be without ‘id’ so what we learn is to hide behind the ‘black’ swan. The so called self – righteous people find somebody or some situation that they can smartly use their impulses in disguise.

A girl came shouting and screaming about her lover who deceived her and to teach him a lesson of his life, she had a very ‘dark plan’.  

I was very surprised to hear about it from her as she always presented as the ‘good’ girl and so very ‘helpful’ and ‘conscientious’.

Everybody who is smart and socially correct is waiting for somebody to be black so that the can hide behind the shadow and bring out his ‘id’ impulses.  

But the ‘black swan’ knows about this and he laughs at the coward !