HUMAN CONTACT

All that we need is a simple human contact to lead a normal day to day life. However, such "unconditional positive regard" is not easily available.

I have seen that even if you extend such simple human contact to other, it is very difficult for others to receive it – they don't know what to do with it. They question its authenticity.

My experience and intuition guides me for "authentic human contact" with my clients.

There are many who have found themselves and their identity purely due to presence of "unconditional positive regard".  However, there are many who only experience anger and frustration towards this healthy human to human interaction that non - judgmental and most happily showered on them without any ulterior motive.

I feel that there is no need for any adult to feel scared or feel that their life will get ruined by such unconditional positive regard.

Some who are still stuck in their ‘Child Ego State’, unconditional stroke is just too comforting and then they get addicted to it. They get very angry as you withdraw this contact from them.  If you don’t have any ulterior motive, then these addicts will find their own baring sooner or later.